TRACYTON WASHINGTON – Susan Engstrom Lindgren, a cherished mother, grandmother, bartender, and vibrant member of the Bremerton community, died at her home in Tracyton on January 29, 2025, after a courageous battle with tongue cancer. Born on November 11, 1946, Sue lived a life rich in love, adventure, and connection, leaving behind a legacy that will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all who knew her. She was 79.
Sue was born at Harrison Memorial Hospital and raised in Bremerton alongside her siblings, Kim and Reid, by her parents, Gordon and Mary Engstrom. Her parents, who owned The National Tavern, instilled in her a strong work ethic and a love for community. Sue graduated from West High School in 1965 and went on to study at the American College of Switzerland before earning her BA from Washington State University. Despite her travels, Bremerton always remained her home, and she returned there to build a life filled with purpose and joy.
A natural people person, Sue thrived as a bartender, a profession she embraced for over 40 years. Her warmth and charisma made her a favorite at local establishments like The National Tavern, VIPs, The Quarterdeck, The Oyster Bay Inn, and The Melody Lane. Through her work, she formed countless friendships, turning regulars into lifelong companions.
Family was at the heart of Sue’s life. She married her first husband, Ted Taylor, in 1975, and together they had two children, Blair and Kim. Later, she married Donald Lindgren in 1998, and the couple shared a love for travel, often escaping to their second homes in Costa Rica and the Oregon Coast. They also enjoyed boating on their vessel, the *Bye Bye Blues*. After Don’s passing in 2003, Sue never remarried, but she found immense joy in her role as “Gaga” to her grandson, Alasdair, and later to her bonus grandson, Alden. Watching the boys play together and reading bedtime stories with Ally became some of her most treasured moments.
Sue had a passion for life’s simple pleasures. She loved tending to her garden, watching squirrels dart through her backyard, and engaging in spirited games of cribbage, Scrabble, and Rummikub. A lifelong gamer, she carried on her family’s tradition of friendly competition, always ready to challenge anyone to a round of cards. She also enjoyed playing along with *Jeopardy* and *Wheel of Fortune*, showcasing her quick wit and love for trivia.
Known for her larger-than-life personality, Sue had a story for every occasion—and a few she kept to herself. Her laughter, kindness, and zest for life left an indelible mark on everyone she met. To honor her memory, family and friends are invited to a Celebration of Life gathering at 2 p.m. on Sunday, February 23, at Rolling Hills Golf Course/Putters in Bremerton. Attendees are encouraged to bring photos, share stories, and raise a glass to Sue, just as she would have wanted.
Sue’s legacy is one of love, resilience, and an unwavering commitment to living life to the fullest. She is survived by her daughter Kimberly Taylor (Matt Varnado), her son Blair Taylor, her grandsons Alasdair and Alden, her sister and brother-in-law Kim and Barry Trudeau, and her brother Reid Engstrom. As her family and friends gather to celebrate her life, they are reminded of her favorite motto: “Live it up!” Sue’s spirit will continue to inspire those who knew her, and her memory will forever be a source of comfort and joy.
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